This has been a week full of really strange experiences. Strange, but
super good.
We have one o’clock church on Sunday's. It stinks right? Well, not
really, considering I feel like I've been going to church now every day for over
a year. It's whatever.
Anyway we were going to do a referral that we got.
Everything that day was going perfect. It was a beautiful sunny day. The
weather was warm. My companion had made me breakfast (which he does frequently
btw. He is kind of the cats pajamas.) I was even wearing one of my very
favorite penguin brand skinny ties. We got to the building of the referral and
the door was locked. We couldn't get in. I said a little prayer in my head that
we could get in and sure enough right after I close the prayer, two decrepit
guys popped around the corner and opened the door for us. They looked and
smelled like the cigarettes they were smoking, but we thanked them anyway.
As we ascended the first set of stairs up to the fifth floor, I began to
hear a familiar tune. I stopped, Elder Thompson and we carefully listened
together. The song "I am a child of God" performed by the Mormon
Tabernacle Choir was ebbing and flowing throughout the stair well. Elder
Thompson glanced back at me as if to say, "ooooh baby daddy." We had
to find the person that was playing this Celestial music. We knew that it
wasn't coming from our referrals house. We were trying to listen intently to
where this music was coming from. I had a glimmer of hope in my heart. If we
could find the apartment this music was coming we wouldn't be surprised if
there was a family sitting around in their white baptism jumpsuits waiting for
someone with the priesthood authority to knock on their door and do the job. I
was more excited in this moment than I was when I was 10 years old and my
mother was finna cook me up some Dino nuggets.
We were spazzing out, knocking on random doors that we thought might
possibly be the right one. Nothing. Door after door nobody answered. It was as
if the sound was running away from us. We would go up a floor and it would
sound the same loudness as it was if we went down a floor. After ten minutes or
so of spazzing out I made the bold but faith lacking comment, "I think
it's just coming from your iPad Elder Thompson." Our hearts dropped it
hotter than snoop dogg. Despite Elder Thomspon’s iPads screen being turned off
and him not being connected to wifi, his iPad was playing the hymns off of LDS.org. God must
think he's real funny sometimes haha. We felt like idiots.
Our Ward is having a Meet the Mormons open house at our chapel in a few
weeks. We are opening the doors to anyone that wants to come and we will have
members talking to people and then show the video. We have been trying to get
the word out to the whole neighborhood. We made a plethora of flyers and have
been tossing those out like Cheerios in the nursery. It's gonna be sick.
So much paper, I should start a bank! |
So much paper, they should call Mr. Printer! |
We went and looked up a media referral that we had received in
Parkchester which is a part of the Bronx that is basically it's own city
entirely full of project buildings. We entered the project, rode the urine
stricken elevator up to the top floor, and knocked on this guy’s door. He
answered and told us that he had a ton of health problems and was feeling too
sick to meet and told us to come back, but just as he was closing the door he
said, "You know what, why don't you fellas come on in." Within the
first few minutes he told us that he has a health issue that makes it so he gets
the hiccups for months on end. This guy had the hiccups this time for the WHOLE
entire month without it going away.
We asked him a few questions about his background and through his
hiccups he began to unfold to us his whole life story. Usually when someone
proceeds to tell you their whole life story it's a little annoying. You would
think that through constant hiccups it would be even more annoying, but it
wasn't. There was patience and consideration. This guy was born in Louisville,
Kentucky in the late 60's. At the age of 7 he was outside playing in the yard.
His mom was standing on the sidewalk talking to his father who was working on
the car at the curbside. Two guys walked on the sidewalk and pushed his mom out
of the way to get by and said some less that stellar words. His father told
them to not talk to a woman that way, especially his wife. One of the guys
pulled out a gun and shot this guy’s dad right in front of his eyes when he was
7 years old. Less than a year later his mom was suffering from high blood
pressure. He knew she was in the hospital but didn't know what condition she
was in. After a while his extended family all came to the house. He saw them
taking stuff from his house and dividing it up but he didn't know why. He was
only 8 at the time, so why question right? One afternoon him and his older
cousin were sitting on the porch when his older cousin said, "You haven't
heard that your mom’s been dead for a couple weeks now have you?" No one
told this poor guy that his mom had passed away.
After both his parents passed away, he and his 6 brothers and sisters
were sent here to the Bronx to be raised by his aunt and uncle. While in the
Bronx, he was physically bullied growing up because he was black living in a
Dominican neighborhood. His aunt and uncle didn't show him much love growing up
either. For years his uncle was always a jerk to him and would tease him about
his mother’s death. One night during dinner, his uncle made a joke about his
dead mom. His little sister spoke up. His uncle didn't like that so he got an
extension cord and whipped his little sister with it. He had no choice but to
stand up to his uncle. He had taken it for too long. He got up from the table
and stopped his uncle from whipping his sister. His uncle and him got into a
huge quarrel. He decided that he needed to run away, so run away he did.
For over twenty years this guy lived on the streets of the Bronx until
the last couple years where he was able to get a project apartment. Here this
man sat. The same man that had told me one of the saddest stories ever told.
Here he was after a lifetime of being broken and never really put back
together. Here he was intensely humbled, ready to hear something to change his
life and give him hope.
Elder Thompson and I sat there feeling that we were the ones appointed
to do that. We explained to him the Book of Mormon using the pictures in the
front. We talked of hope. We talked of redemption. We talked of Jesus
Christ. By the end this man was weeping. He told us how grateful he was that we
stopped by. He said, "I usually don't step foot outside of my apartment
unless I have to because I don't trust anybody. I don't tell anybody my life
story. Something about you makes me trust you guys. You're always welcome in my
apartment."
Within one hour Elder Thompson and I felt we had made strides with this
man if that really was the case. He is going to the hospital for the next
couple weeks for an operation but he said that when he gets back, he will have
us over.
I am meeting the craziest people and hearing the craziest stories. We
sometimes forget how truly special the knowledge of this gospel is until we see
the lives of those that don't have it. The Gospel life is the good life my
friends. If something gives you this much happiness it has to be true.
-Elder Tyler J Johanson